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Flirting & My Stories

Flirting & My Stories


I promised you a flirting animation in the last video, so here you go. BURPITY BURRRR Big shocker…I don’t like it. *Chuckle* I’m assuming you all guess, based on my personality, That I’m not one to partake in (SEDUCTIVELY) “swooning” someone over with charming words of flattery…. I don’t think I have ever flirted in my entire life, come to think of it. Okay, well, I did this one time by accident, but I-I’ll get to that later on. I’m more of a, “Make someone feel good and just, overall let them know I care about them” kind of person. (=‐ω‐=) I have no courage to do anything else. All I can imagine is me just trying to approach someone, being like, “Hey there” ……… (what da) “I have a girlfriend………” “OH MY GOD! SAME!” “We have so much in common!” (not realy) … :I *D E E P I N H A L E* ._. Agh, O F F” And even if I somehow got past the initial “flirty introduction”, My low small talk skills won’t get me very far with anything anyway. Okay, so, the first time I ever tried to be a “confident flirty person” or whatever was with this one friend I had. I liked them at the time and we hung out a lot. And one time, we were just sitting on their bed, just chillin’ and talkin’. Just buds being buds. And my mind just starts going, “Okay, you’ve never done anything close to flirting in your entire life. Who even are you? Get your crap together,” “Just do something, let’s go, jeez, c’mon-” I basically bullied myself into submission, which, I didn’t even know was possible, but, congrats to me, I guess. 😀 I peer pressured myself without any peers. So, we were just talking and I just, wrapped my arm around them. Like, with no warning. They were just mid sentence and I was like, ANGH And I IMMEDIATELY regretted it. Like okay – no this is not what i want anymore, why did i convince myself to do this. I’m – god dangit! Cutting the story short, we just remained friends, and, honestly, I’m glad we did. I realized that I prefer this person much more as a friend and I’m glad we didn’t start a relationship. If anything, we just become closer as pals. They are literally, one of my best friends now. They also watch my videos, soo, hey You’re probably expecting me to say this is awkward, but you’re wrong! BUT YOU’RE WRONG!>:D WE’RE BEST FRIENDS! *swag intensifies* Sorry! you can’t laugh at my self-deprecation this time! HA! Just a side tangent, I don’t understand why people just stop talking to someone just because they don’t share mutual feelings with them. like ok so.. You like someone enough to possibly consider starting a closer relationship, Which means, You already enjoy their company, personality and overall, them as a person. And just because they don’t share the same romantic feelings back, you all of a sudden, don’t want to associate with them anymore? That makes absolutely NO sense. Minus the relationship, you two sound like you could’ve had a freagin’ BOMB friendship. Since you theoretically should be able to get along perfectly, I mean, if you consider them as an adequate possible partner, I dunno, it just doesn’t make sense to me. eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh unless you’re a douche bag and only like that person for their looks and nothing else. Another part to flirting is, The texting, the messaging, the sliding in the dms-ing. And I don’t really do that either, but I have something to say about it. So, I guess I understand why you would want to wait a few minutes to text someone back, because you don’t wanna seem clingy or something. But, why do people wait, like, more than ten minutes? That’s such a waste of time! And it kinda comes off that you don’t really care that you’re talking to them. Which is the opposite of what you’re feeling. Why can’t we show when we appreciate someone anymore? Also, I know people who want to text someone they like as little as possible, because, I dont know. They’ll almost make it a competition to try and leave the conversation first. They’ll almost make it a competition to try and leave the conversation first. Like, “Congrats! You win on finding a way to make them be the last to text in your conversation!” “You know what your prize is?” “Not getting to talk to the person you wanna talk to!” Putting it that way doesn’t make it seem all that appealing, does it? So now I’m sure you’re wanting me to tell you stories that make me kind of die a bit inside, but provide you with entertainment. (Sarcastically Enthusiastic) Let’s start with awkward first date, shall we? (Sarcastically Enthusiastic) Let’s start with awkward first date, shall we? During my junior year of high school after our homecoming dance, My group of friends and I wanted to go bowling, because, fun. I didn’t have a date. Obviously. At the bowling place, next to our lane, were a group of people around the same age as us. And, out of the blue! One of my friends just goes, “HEY! WILL YOU GUYS TAKE A PICTURE WITH US SO IT LOOKS LIKE WE HAVE DATES!?” (Silence) “RACHEL!” So, we took pictures with these random people, And the one that was my date- “date” was like, “Heh, you should send that to me.” And me being freagin’ innocent and clueless, just goes, “Okay!” “Wait, I don’t have your number.” “wait” “did I just…” “how did I do that?” So blah blah blah I had this persons number now, And I was like, “Oh yeah, I totally meant to be all smooth like that.” To my friends. But, in reality. Ehh, technically, uh, NAH I have no idea what I’m doing. 😀 They end up asking me to the movies and I was like, “ok” But my parents didn’t want me to go alone, so they made me invite Kate and her boyfriend at the time to go as a double date. So we all go to the movies, and since I literally don’t know anything about this person, we didn’t know what to talk about. The whole time. It was all just, “flop” conversations like, “So how was your day?” “Good, how about you?” “Good.” “What’s your favorite color?” uuhbtt AAUGHH It was really… UUUUUUGH I can’t, uhbbt. auggh. It was, scarring. Like, I’m serious, I will never accept any movie invitations unless it’s with close friends or family. All that comes to my mind when I think about movie theaters are just, flashbacks… Like, I don’t wanna relive that! I already lived through it once. That’s quite enough. No more please. So that story wasn’t too bad, just awkward tension- COME ON LET’S BUMP IT UP A BIT! Awkard first kiss! (Oh dear god) so hey my first date was with someone i literally didn’t know you think i’d learn my lesson and would kinda get to know someone before i accepted date invetations, right? W R O N G (hint i’m bad at saying no to people) Also, this is my second date ever. Just putting that fact out there. During my freshman year in college, this person invited me to go on a date, and yeaah, I didn’t know them either. like at all. I’VE LEARNED MY LESSON NOW, OKAY!? We meet up and decide to eat at a restaurant, and heyo, I’ll save some time just by saying, It was going VERY similar to my first date. EXPOSITION TIME! My college has this mountain near it called, “A mountain” and people liked to hike it. Well, I- umm, it’s really not even a hike, more like, walking up at a mild angle. So we wound up walking up “A Mountain” and sitting on a rock platform at the top. And we continued attempting at a normal conversation *not really succeeding.* At one point they put their arm around me Come to think of it, all these stories are kind of coming full circle and I never realized and I’m kinda freaking out And I kinda start just panicking to myself. *Okay, I see where this is going, but I don’t know if I want to end up kissing them.* *Like, I literally know nothing about this person- AGAIN* *And I haven’t kissed anyone yet, what is even happening right now? Oh golly jeez* And all of a sudden, they grab my face and turn it towards them And I’m going, *I SEE WHAT’S ABOUT TO HAPPEN BUT CRAP I DON’T KNOW IF I WANNA KISS THEM YET!* “Oh, well I ran out of time.” So anyone who just happens to take a date up to the top of “A Mountain” and sit on the platform thing, You’ll be sitting on the same spot I accidentally got kissed by someone. And if you’re there, Take a picture and tweet it at me. I’d say preferably if you guys kissing but that’s kind of weird, and I mean, unless you want to. This last story isn’t really about flirting or dates, but I think it’s kinda funny. I was hanging out with an ex-friend, and we were walking along our colleges main strip, It’s a street called “Mill” and it’s got a bunch of stores and restaurants along it. And just because I like how all these stories are kinda connecting, the restaurant first kiss and I went to was on this strip too. We sat down at a bench outside a shop and these two passersby go, “Awwww, relationship goals.” as they walk into the shop. We kinda looked at each other and laughed and just kept talking. Then, a few minutes later, the same people left the store and walked by us again and were like, “so how long have you guys been together?” And we were like, “Et-Umm” Like, we froze. And after a bit, I just go, “He’s gay.” Their faces were like, *INHALE* “WE MADE A MISTAAAAAAAKE” So, moral of the video, don’t overthink relationship stuff or dates or kissing or whatever you’re overthinking. If you like someone, tell them. If you want to date someone, ask them. If you wanna kiss someone, give them more thinking time before you yank their head at your face. Just be cool about it all If you can’t be a couple, then show the world how BOMB you guys are as friends! ALSO! SUPER SPECIAL SECRET ANNOUNCEMENT! I’m gonna try and whip up a video explaining this a bit more, but basically, THERE’S BEEN A REVAMP TO THE SHOP! A bunch of new merch stuff but more importantly, PLUSHES! YEP-YAHP! There is Jaiden plushes, just, AWAITING YOUR PURCHASE NOW. More details in the official announcement video. But if you’re still here, that means you have early access to the new Jaiden merch.>:D I highly suggest checking that stuff out especially since everything’s on sale for a limited time right now WUUUUUUUUUUUT Anyway, new shop, go peep it out and yeah UUUUHHHH JAIDEN OUT! *hah*

100 thoughts on “Flirting & My Stories

  1. i already know what you guys are gonna say and no, none of these stories are about james so you can take off your detective hats thankyaverymuch

  2. Jayden I’m like you I’m to nervous to say anything I like this kid and well I don’t wanna say it IM TO SHYYYY thanks for make it great videos btw

  3. 6:00 I bet this is what that person was thinking,
    OKAY your with This Girl- And you Need To Make a move, JUST TRY TO BE CHILL….

  4. Mine is the opposite When I confessed he said he wanted to be friends… 🎶but the very next day he ignored me all the way🎶

  5. Jaden I I well I was never thinking it was James so you can take back that's thank you very much because I was never thinking it was and why did they think he was gay if he was gay that be kind of weird to say that in front of strangers who don't know you and things are in a little relationship so why didn't you guys just tell him that you were in a relationship that would have been the smarter thing to do skip saying he was gay so yeah Jaden you still strong and independent but you can't just be rebellious like that so I just want to tell you that you're a great person but rebellious times call for rebellious moments not just being a liar I'm not saying that you are a liar but just not right to say that instead it would have been smarter to say that you were in a relationship so yeah I'd rather you say you guys were in a relationship instead of saying he's gay so yeah it would have been smarter just to say that you guys were in a relationship end a story just saying it would have been smarter to do that

  6. this video is three years old but to answer your first question where you couldn't stay friends, personally the relationship with my crush/friend just didn't work out we got too close and it was hard to back away from there

    I took some time away from her, obviously I wanted to get over her as fast as possible

    But the damage was done we just weren't talking as much, I would say something she would just not respond or just not say much, to the point were we just don't talk at all

  7. I’m in 5th grade and something happened today…

    My friend Jennifer today we were walking on the field and a kid named Toby said “hey” 😉 he was soo close to her almost kissed !!!!

  8. 1:55 thank you jaiden I have known this person for 3 weeks and I really liked them and we got on soo well and I told them and they now try there best not to talk to me anymore she doesn't laugh at my jokes anymore or anything it has put me down so much 😦

  9. No heck no,considering how much I cared for them and in the end got nothing but pain, a heel no to their company.. Just take off your egoist ass and begone thot..!!!

    Yeah I did cried (… (a it))

  10. Tbh I just gave up imagining romance with my crush so then I don’t get disappointed that it didn’t happen🤷🏻‍♀️ and try to move on bc high school dates don’t last long. Talking to my crush isn’t a huge problem but flirting with them 😬

  11. What really Happenned to me:
    Crush:I dont like you
    ME:I dont like you to! >:c
    I blocked him

    ;-; I just wanted t0o be friends!

  12. 1 a gamer dont care about girls but gamer girls thats for sure

    2 normal people keep tying to get a girl

    3 the creep who knows what her crush wants

  13. i wanna know why hes not your friends any more why did you say ex-friend and is he really gay??????? (sorry not being mean)

  14. This one time in 8th grade I was talking to lunch and I saw my crush walking alone, and my mind was like “GO TALK TO HER, CMOOOOON DO IT 😏😏” and I did and after swooning her a little bit I went to lunch and when I DID, my friend was sitting next to her talking with my other friends

    And I was like “Crrrrrrrrrrrap. Ok don’t say a word, just plop down and sit” and when I did I said “HI! :)” like rlly loud to my friends and my crush and HER friends moved to another table…..

    That changed her opinion of me or that’s what I believe 😕 I’m so stupid XP

  15. 7:21 that's why you never assume someone is dating if there just chatting with each other 😂

    Reminds me of a funny situation I was in, in 7th grade 😂 I was just chilling by a tree listening to music and a girl comes bye asking me if I'm single and my stuipid blind ass said yes and she then asked me out and then I realized what was happening and I asked if she knew I was a trans because I looked like a guy and I am originally a girl and she just stood there in shock and her friends where there as well in shock and she looked extremely embarrassed and then my friend next to me that was silent the entire time out of nowhere said that I was gay and then she sad sorry about a million times and now it's just akward whenever we see each other 😅

  16. Every crush I've ever had : S'up!
    Me when I talk to my crush: I know where you live!
    Them: What?
    Me : I was talking to the floor!
    Me : Crys.

  17. Me: * asleep and dreams of being friends with jaiden*

    Also me: wakes up*

    Also ALSO ME lol: god dangit am never gonna be friends with her 🙁

  18. The only time I have ever flirted with someone I was interested in was…
    …When I played Babette and he played Lumiere in our schools production of beauty and the beast

  19. I text with my crush named logan and I text with her all the time and logan if you see this then ahhhhhh never ever talk about this or ☺️

  20. Jaiden… you're adult (i think) ok… if you did that thing you did (rap you're arm around someone) again today… i'm just warning you for a (probably) fun "Ride" 😉 (if you do not under stand what i'm hinting at here. you're to young.)

  21. OK! I HAVE TO MAKE ANOTHER COMMENT AGAIN!. so it looks like jaiden is stuck in a loop i like to call THE GETTING TO SECOND PART OF THE DATE BUT IT NEVER HAPPENS.. LIKE EVER loop. [now if you don't know what i mean by second part of the date. i mean the "Fun part" 😉 ]

  22. i had a heart attack 5 times jaiden jesus christ you crazy lad i kept screaming no when those events already happened

  23. I asked a girl out, and she was already one of my best friends. She said no and it’s awkward to talk to her. T H A T’ S W H Y J A I D E N

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