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Bullying – Stop It

Bullying – Stop It

We are all brothers and sisters. I imagine that every
person on earth has been affected in some
way by the destructive spirit of contention,
resentment, and revenge. The spirit of envy
and hatred has led to some of the most
tragic stories in history. Perhaps there are
even times when we recognize this
spirit in ourselves. We are not perfect. The people around
us are not perfect. Jess. Jess, come on. Mom needs the car. People do things that annoy,
disappoint, and anger. Though we cannot look
into another’s heart, we assume that we know a bad
motive or even a bad person when we see one. This topic of judging
others could actually be taught in a two word sermon. When it comes to hating,
gossiping, ignoring, ridiculing, holding grudges,
or wanting to cause harm, please apply the
following: Stop it! Jessica! Hey, why didn’t you call me? She’s such a loser. Hey, hurry up. Get in the car. Where were you? Sorry. You OK? I’m fine. Whatever. Well, we’ve got a youth activity
tonight at the old folks home in like 30 minutes. Me and my friends are going
to go if you wanna come. Mom, we’re home. Hey kids. Just leave the keys
on the counter. I’ll be down in just a second. Have fun at your activity. All right, well, I’m
gonna start walking. Are you coming? No, I’ve got homework. All right. Well, don’t drink all the juice. We may get there
before the day is done. Yeah. OK. Yeah here we go. OK. I went first, then you, Sam. Draw. Whatever. He’s going anyway. It doesn’t even matter. He doesn’t get to take it. You love what? Drama? What, are you cheating? You got a wild card
up your sleeve. Are you kidding me, Sam? This is why you always win. You need to go
back to your room. OK. See ya, Sam. Hey, are you the one that
made that picture of Melissa? What picture? You made her cry
in biology today. Look, I was just joking
around, so people need to stop taking
things so seriously. Jessica? Thanks for drinking
all the juice. Jess. Jess. Jessica. Jess. Hey. You OK? I, uh, I looked at your phone. Who wrote that? Who cares? They’re right. No, no, Jess. Come here. No they’re not. They don’t know
who you really are. I mean, Jess, they’re
just kidding around. You are just like them,
especially at school. Haven’t we all at one
time or another meekly approached the mercy seat
and pleaded for grace? Haven’t we wished with all
the energy of our souls for mercy, to be forgiven
for the mistakes we have made and the sins we have committed? Forgiving ourselves
and others is not easy. In fact, for most of us
it requires a major change in our attitude and
way of thinking, even a change of heart. Consider the following
questions as a self test. Do you harbor a grudge
against someone else? Do you gossip even when
what you say may be true? Do you exclude, push
away, or punish others because of something
they have done? Do you secretly envy another? Do you wish to cause
harm to someone? If you answered yes to
any of these questions, you may want to apply the
two word sermon from earlier. Stop it. There’s enough heartache
and sorrow in this life without our adding to it
through our own stubbornness, bitterness, and resentment. This mighty change of
heart is exactly what the gospel of Jesus Christ
is designed to bring about. I just wanted to say
I’m truly, truly sorry. Let us be kind. Let us forgive. Let us talk peacefully
with each other. Let us do good unto all men. Allowing us to
see others the way our Heavenly Father sees us,
as flawed and imperfect mortals who have potential and worth far
beyond our capacity to imagine. Because God loves us so much,
we too must love and forgive. Remember, in the end it is
the merciful who obtain mercy.

100 thoughts on “Bullying – Stop It

  1. If any of those that bullying one other, which is the name was no longer in the Lamb's Book Of Life.

  2. Unpopularity Stems From Unpredictability.

    This is something that I've noticed in my years in school. If someone's unpredictable, people are usually quick to put them down in an attempt to either preserve or raise their social status.

    It usually stems out of fear of the unpredictable, it's a natural trait, fear of the unknown is one of the most dominant human traits, that's why so many are afraid of the dark. You never know what might be lurking.

  3. No entendí casi nada de lo que decia (no hablo el inglés) … Pero capte el mensaje tan profundo que deja

  4. ⬜⬛⬜⬛⬜⬛⬜⬛⬜⬛⬜⬛⬜⬛
    No one cares when you are watching

  5. People like to say while growing up to have ‘Sympathy for bullies because most of the time they are just having problems’ but honestly what on earth will that do. It doesn’t matter if you are having problems or trouble at home. You never treat another thing on this earth with such disrespect. You don’t get a pass to act like that just because you are having problems. Everyone has problems and no one has a perfect life. And to people who have been bullied, this world is a horrible place with people that do terrible things. Don’t let them stop you from living your life, because they don’t run your life. You do!

  6. 9:45 I love you to god❤️

    I’ve been bullying for my life ever since I was little
    Including my step dad will bullies me.
    Most kids will throw rocks at me and call me names.
    Also my step dad will say disturbing names to me.
    Yeah I did cry cause words hurts.
    Yeah I did talk about death and thinking about killing my self
    But I never did it.
    I went through a LOT of depression and I never spoke about it to anyone.

  7. Seeing these videos for new ways to bully people this year gotta spice it up you know can't do the same shit otherwise the victim gonna start thinking I'm unoriginal

  8. Bᴜʟʟʏɪɴɢ? Tʜɪɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ sᴏ ᴄᴏᴏʟ?Tʜᴇ ɢɪʀʟ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴄᴀʟʟᴇᴅ ғᴀᴛ?… Sʜᴇ ɪs going ᴏɴ a ᴅɪᴇᴛ – Tʜᴇ ɢɪʀʟ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴄᴀʟʟᴇᴅ ᴜɢʟʏ?… Sʜᴇ sᴘᴇɴᴅs ʜᴏᴜʀs ᴘᴜᴛᴛɪɴɢ ᴍᴀᴋᴇᴜᴘ ᴏɴ ʜᴏᴘɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ʟɪᴋᴇ ʜᴇʀ. -Tʜᴇ ʙᴏʏ ʏᴏᴜ pushed down the stairs – Hᴇ ɪs ᴀʙᴜsᴇᴅ ᴇɴᴏᴜɢʜ ᴀᴛ ʜᴏᴍᴇ. -Sᴇᴇ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴍᴀɴ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴜɢʟʏ sᴄᴀʀs?… Hᴇ ғᴏᴜɢʜᴛ ғᴏʀ ʜɪs ᴄᴏᴜɴᴛʀʏ. -Tʜᴀᴛ ɢᴜʏ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴍᴀᴅᴇ ғᴜɴ ᴏғ ғᴏʀ ᴄʀʏɪɴɢ?… Hɪs ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ɪs ᴅʏɪɴɢ. -Tʜᴀᴛ ᴋɪᴅ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴍᴀᴅᴇ ғᴜɴ ᴏғ ғᴏʀ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ʙᴀʟᴅ?…Hᴇ ʜᴀs ᴄᴀɴᴄᴇʀ."
    Bᴜʟʟʏɪɴɢ? Tʜɪɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ sᴏ ᴄᴏᴏʟ?Tʜᴇ ɢɪʀʟ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴄᴀʟʟᴇᴅ ғᴀᴛ?… Sʜᴇ ɪs going ᴏɴ a ᴅɪᴇᴛ – Tʜᴇ ɢɪʀʟ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴄᴀʟʟᴇᴅ ᴜɢʟʏ?… Sʜᴇ sᴘᴇɴᴅs ʜᴏᴜʀs ᴘᴜᴛᴛɪɴɢ ᴍᴀᴋᴇᴜᴘ ᴏɴ ʜᴏᴘɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ʟɪᴋᴇ ʜᴇʀ. -Tʜᴇ ʙᴏʏ ʏᴏᴜ pushed down the stairs – Hᴇ ɪs ᴀʙᴜsᴇᴅ ᴇɴᴏᴜɢʜ ᴀᴛ ʜᴏᴍᴇ. -Sᴇᴇ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴍᴀɴ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴜɢʟʏ sᴄᴀʀs?… Hᴇ ғᴏᴜɢʜᴛ ғᴏʀ ʜɪs ᴄᴏᴜɴᴛʀʏ. -Tʜᴀᴛ ɢᴜʏ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴍᴀᴅᴇ ғᴜɴ ᴏғ ғᴏʀ ᴄʀʏɪɴɢ?… Hɪs ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ɪs ᴅʏɪɴɢ. -Tʜᴀᴛ ᴋɪᴅ ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴍᴀᴅᴇ ғᴜɴ ᴏғ ғᴏʀ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ʙᴀʟᴅ?…Hᴇ ʜᴀs ᴄᴀɴᴄᴇʀ."

  9. Yeah but like bullies aren’t gonna watch this and think wow you’re right. It’s going to keep happening. Instead of asking people not to bully (which never ends up working)
    Why don’t you actually address the problem at first and say hey back off of her/him, go away, I’m not leaving until you leave them alone.
    Not that hard to stop bullying as long as you’re actively looking out for and watching for bullies🙄
    Sometime y’all just need to address the real issue instead of just making short videos on how we shouldn’t. I am not a bully but anti bully ads have been running for years and people still get bullied.

  10. Stop sitting there talking about how sad it is that people are bullied when we know that if you see someone getting bullied/assualted, no one says or does anything in fear they will be victimized too. Stop thinking what if I get hurt and start reacting and helping those who are ACTUALLY getting hurt.

  11. Sometimes bullying a person is fun to most people and they don’t think about the person they are hurting and what they already go through in life bullying doesn’t help it only makes it worse so if your a bully stop and think of the person you are hurting

  12. *Mormons*: Make a pretty good video

    *Me, a Nondenominational Christian*: Wow. Applause for y’all.

  13. I saw this when I was in 4th grade and know that I'm in 8th grade I'm understanding it more and going through things that relate.
    In 4th grade I just was happy that it wasn't real.

  14. Bullies should be fined for
    their bad behavior, like a fine of $100 or higher every time they bully
    someone. Similar to how people get fined for speeding when driving. No one
    would dare bully anyone anymore if it's going to cost them lots of money. The
    money that the bullies would spend would go to their school. School's can set
    up security cameras and hire security guards observing the security camera
    footage throughout the whole school day, so that bullies can always be
    witnessed and never get away with bullying. That way everyone can have a safe
    and pleasant day. There, that would solve the bullying problem.

  15. this is a great message. I was talking to a great lady about the church. Then it came up that her husband was bullied by several members of our church. I wish those "people" would have known they effected those people future progress. We are serious about all people and there progress in eternity. but these bullies need to know they will be held responsible for their actions.

  16. idek why im watching this i dont get bullied and i dont bully i dont know anybody who gets bullied or is a bully and ive never seen anyone be bullied or bully

  17. I was a victim of bullying, back in 9th grade this group of students used to make fun of the music I like and for trying to speak Spanish because of my Mexican heritage.

  18. when i was 7 yrs old ppl used to bully me of the way how i looked until 8th grade all the boys came up to and asked me out
    while theey were the boys who bullied me when i was ugly…so i dont want anyone who cant accept me the way i looked in the past

  19. 3 years I got bullied by my friends.they make me sad all day.I can't hold the pain.I think I wanted to died.this year…I revenge to they to know what they do to me

  20. I just got cyber bullied. This random girl started standing up for me. Eventually she left the game. The bullying continued. Luckily it was a game where I could choose the winner. I chose the people who weren’t bullying me. I hope people who are being bullied see this and hope it makes them feel better.

  21. Hurting others is NEVER funny. It never solves our differences. And hurting others NEVER elevates us in Jesus or Jehovah's wise eyes. Only by offering love, compassion and mercy do we do Jehovah's and Jesus' will. I get it . . . . stop it. Now excuse me, I have to stop it, too.

  22. Its crazy cause in my class we talk about this stuff and everyone agrees,but outside of the classroom everyone hates on eachother sometimes

  23. (Not being racist) Ok, when I was in school, mostly African Americans made fun of me. Idk why they made fun of me. I didn't do anything to disturb them. I just hate the way they laugh at people, judge people (they as in my school), and harass people. I cried just about now almost all the anger I had. Bullying isn't ok. I talked to my mom about it, and it kinda helped.

  24. you had me until the god bit why does "he" have anything to do with it?
    Do it with out god you don't need it.
    And do it because it is right not because you will get something from doing it.

  25. This is kinda long, but if you stick around and read 'til the end, I think it will be worth your while!

    I had my own dealings with jerks in my school, they weren't exactly bullies, but they weren't very kind to me at all. One tried to take exclude me and kick me out of my group of friends (I didn't have many friends at the time so this was especially bad [I don't have any friends irl but I have some friends on Youtube these days]), one gave me looks of disgust and called me gross all the time, and the last one was just trying to make life difficult for me. There was one situation with that one where we almost got into a physical altrication.I tried multiple methods to get them to stop, for example: whenever they would speak to me, I would look at them, not say a word, and look away. But no avail. Then I tried telling my teachers. I literally got it trouble for tattle taling.. What??!! You know what I did? I told the teachers and my parents nonstop until someone finally did something. Guys, don't let bullies get to you. Don't listen to them. You are amazing! You will be out of school and you will finally be away from them 🙂 Just stay strong and don't give them the satisfaction of you being hurt by them. Don't let them get to you because if you let them get to you, they win. Don't let them win! Everything will be okay! 💖 If anyone needs a friend or someone to talk to, I'm here! 💖

  26. Perhaps the negative, anti-bullying campaigns send the wrong message as they are ineffective. Instead focus on the Positive Behaviors that people should practice toward one another.

  27. My country has the moree evil stories than this in our government universities and students killed their own selves because of the stress this problem was a disaster to my life and i lost my university life because my parents do not allow me to go trust me sometimes truth could be worst than this video

  28. everyone is beautiful and handsome its just like….

    no ones perfect just love the way u are only god is perfect

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